Do men Fall in Love Easier than Women ?

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By Fadia Bukhari          

 

         Do men fall in love faster than women ? This question is one of the most controversial  questions in recent years because of the significance of love for human beings  . Scientific researchers have created hypothesis to figure out if men fall in love before women or  they do  not .” For years , there has been a perception that women are faster to say, “I love you “, than men . It turns out that it is men who fall in love  more easily” (Mail Online) .

                Men fall in love more easily than women because they use visual information to choose their partners .Also, women are more circumspect  than men when it comes to romance and men are less interested in having time to themselves .

Men fall in love at first sight faster than women in terms of visual information . Because of this , they fall in love when they are attracted physically by someone . That means men fall in love at first sight due to the appearance or how the women look apparently. According to a new study ,the researchers from Match.com find that” men apparently fall in love  more than women .For instance ,54% of men say they have felt love at first sight “(Marie Claire). Men are more likely to feel interested in women due to their  beautiful faces ,gorgeous bodies and the way of their smiles . As a result of this , men fall in love at first sight more than women do which makes them  to declare their affection to women . Helen Fisher, Ph.D., professor at Rutgers University, and author of Why We Love said that ” men are more likely to fall in love based on looks and first impressions”( Men’s Health News). Women’s look can make men fall in love easily .

                      Another key point  that causes men to fall in love is  women are more circumspect  than men when it comes to romance .Women need more time to realize their affections .According to the latest finding by Marissa Harrsion from Pennsylvania State University, “women are more circumspect than men when it comes to love. They were  asked how far into a relationship they got before they openly declared their emotions. The results showed men were more likely to fall in love within a few weeks, while most women said it took several month”( Mail Online). Women are cautious about showing their feelings because they may be rejected by others  . “The idea suggests women should fall in love more  easily than men because they want to see real commitment before bearing children” (USA Today). In addition , men are faster to show up their romantic side. Besides this fact ,men  are more likely to take the risk of saying “I love you “.”Researchers  in the US found three times as many men as women were the first to utter the words ,”I love you”, in a relationship “(Mail Online). For many years , there has been a perception that men are cautious when it comes to romance , but many researchers find out that men are  more romantic than women which leads them to fall in love . “Don’t believe that men fear intimacy .Men are cautious about displaying their vulnerability ,but we are not cowards ” (Gerstman).Many people believe that men fear falling in love ,but studies reveal men don’t fear falling in love.

                  Men are faster to declare their affections more than women. They are the first to utter  the words, “I love you”, in relationships .Men fall in love due to visual information which means they need to like the women’s look .In addition , because women feel fear to fall in love , men fall in love faster than women . Women need to see real commitment before they show their affection .Also , men fall in love because they need women in their lives to be happy and to be cheerful. It is significant to know which gender falls in love first to understand the process of falling in love .Understanding the process of falling in love can lead women and men to success in  relationships .

 

What do  you think? Do men really fall in love easier ?

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